most of that server are rude and annoying af only because they got a good g/s/c and a good rank... So, finally to the last question.
Well, I am pretty sure their ages are tantamount to yours but it is only consist of a number so your age cannot demonstrate us your behaviours but point of view absolutely takes years. If they think the position owns all sorts of thing that they see around. It is literally nothing more than showing off , just shrug people off whom you think still are jackanapes. If you make friends with some well-behaved persons and get along with them, this will completely relax you and will provide a basis for your attitude and behaviour at enhancing these.
Do not let people to decide who you are and your decisions. Good days are coming!